Beautiful Advice from a Divorced Man after 16 Years of Marriage

Last month, newly divorced motivational speaker Gerald Rogers took to Facebook and confessed the things he wished he’d done differently to save his marriage. Never stop dating. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

Marriage Advice I wish I would have had…

Thought this was a great article. Humility is golden. Not too many of us are able to admit on our own wrong doing in the demise of a relationship. Realizing what you did right and wrong is the first step in becoming a better person in the next situation or if it is not too late to make it right and rebuild in your past relationships. Never stop courting. Never stop dating.

After years in a long-term relationship, it’s easy to slip into a complacent routine that’s a little too comfortable. After all, sharing a toothbrush isn’t.

Lately I came across this insightful post by a divorced man Gerald Rogers sharing his advice on making marriages work, after his own year marriage failed. My add-ons in blue. Never stop dating. Celes: I agree. You might not have played an active role in the courtship nor been the proactive lover e. If you have been doing that, then stop. You will constantly change. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other every day.

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By Sadie Whitelocks. A newly-divorced man revealed on Facebook the advice he wished he’d known before tying the knot – and his post quickly amassed hundreds of thousands of hits from inquisitive readers. Gerald Rogers, who works as a motivational speaker in Utah, wrote down 20 tips for men on how to save a marriage including being silly, an ‘epic lover’, never lazy and to stop worrying about money.

Spreading the word: After getting divorced from his wife of almost 16 years, Gerald Rogers wrote down his tips for wedded bliss on Facebook – he was shocked as they attracted hundreds of thousands of inquisitive readers. What the woman needs is just that man to be present. On July 28, the day after his year marriage was officially declared over, Mr Rogers sat at his computer and started typing out his thoughts.

Never stop courting. Never stop dating. Fall in love over and over and over again; Allow her to just be. Be silly; Be present; Give her space.

See details below. Helped and encouraged thousands, infuriated few. We read letters from women in Malaysia comforting women in England. The unity and compassion among people which this article brought forth was a beautiful experience to witness. Is utter and complete selflessness the goal? The advice in this article can be applied to both genders. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Protect your own heart Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance.

Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there. Fall in love over and over again You will constantly change. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday.

Never Stop Courting Your Wife

Marriage is a lot of work, but unfortunately, that’s a lesson many of us don’t fully grasp until it’s too late. In late July, newly divorced motivational speaker Gerald Rogers took to Facebook and admitted that there were a lot of things he could have done differently to save his marriage. The heartfelt advice Rogers shared, posted as a public note, went on to garner over 3, “likes” and over 98, shares — and that’s just at last count.

Never stop dating (each other). Posted May But staying home for a date can be fun, too; you can dine by candlelight, for example. Consider.

Never stop dating. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

You will constantly change. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other every day. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her. Focus only on what you love.

Pursue Your Partner at Every Stage of Marriage

Never stop dating. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

Instead, make an agreement with your spouse and God never to stop courting. Plan to have regular date nights and to continue to pursue your spouse.

Utter and complete selflessness. My advice after a divorce following 16 years of marriage, by Gerald Rogers. Never stop dating. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.

Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there. You will constantly change. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged.

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This is how it should be, says licensed marriage and family therapist associate Hannah Eaton. Dancing allowed the couple to experience and integrate an idea central to healthy relationships: Healthy marriages require intentional effort and the need to pursue one another continually. Eaton names three of these popular marriage myths. She adds that maintaining the practice keeps couples not only connected, but it also allows them to reach new heights and depths with one another.

Never stop courting. Never stop dating. Never ever take that woman for granted. Keep a special place in your heart where no one must enter.

Do you remember when you were dating or courting your spouse? Did you plan time to be together and make every effort to learn more about each other? As the years go by, many couples begin to spend less and less time together. Instead of prioritizing their marriage relationship, other things hold their interest. And, this is when things become dangerous. When we no longer nurture our marriage, we allow other people or things to capture our heart.

Our marriage no longer seems as important as it did on the day we made those solemn vows before God — and before we know it, our marriage is in trouble. Thankfully, this is not my story. My wife Kim and I are celebrating our 25 th wedding anniversary in November. For the two of us, we have intentionally prioritized our time with one another. Date night has been a staple of our relationship.

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